Erectile dysfunction in a partnership erectile dysfunction

Counteract your erectile dysfunction this way!

See your erectile dysfunction as a good thing

There is hardly any sexual activity between two people when one of them has, which puts both into a not very nice position.

People get divorced when there are too many problems that aren't been resolved or at least worked on, especially when it’s something like erectile dysfunction. When people stop having sex, it leads to other relationship issues. 

The person to blaim is only the one that doesn't want to talk about what's happening, many men never tell their partners.

Having an open ear, letting know that your partner can talk about anything with you and having deeper conversations about emotional stuff is more than important.

In a bit you will hopefully agree with me that erectile dysfunction can also be a delightful subject rather than a curse, and that you don't need to suffer emotionally until the illness is gone. Maybe it's hard to believe but bare with me because I will explain what exactly I mean.

Please open your mind and heart and you will see that a positive mindset is all you need to move on and it will be much easier to get over your erectile dysfunction without creating anymore pain. You will see that with being positively driven, the journey of healing what's creating your erectile dysfunction can be like a little advanture rather than seeing it like a nightmare.

There are paradoxes in life that are always there but sometimes we forget about them. Paradoxes means that good cannot exist without evil, big cannot exist without small, hard cannot exist without easy etc. Which leads to the conclusion that there must be something great about an erectile dysfunction. 

You need to find those things that are true in your life because if you see it as a pain in the butt, the healing process with be painful. But if you are able to see the positive things about it, the journey that has to be made anyway if you want to get better, will be much easier for you and your partner.

Erectile dysfunction also brings the following things to you:

you and your partner will appreciate your sex life way more after eliminating your erectile dysfunction

Watch video courses or read about stimulating techniques that work without making use of your penis.

You deepen the connection with your girlfrind/boyfrind when having supportive conversations

There's more time for each other now and you might refresh old habbies-

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Erectile dysfunction problems under 30

An unexpected illness, erectile dysfunction.

How come more and more youngsters get erectile dysfunction?

Normally men over 60 or 70 get less active sexually which is often due to erectile dysfunction. On one side it is very surprising that men under 50, 40 or even 30 complain about erectile dysfunction. 

It is nor so surprising when you know that their life style is making them sick and is sometimes even killing them. Of course, genetics and inherited illnesses play a role too but the life style is making the erectile dysfunction a more and more spread illness.

 Good news is that even when the erectile dysfunction is on the basis of genetics, it is still possible to change, different to what you might have been taught at school. It's been proved that our DNA can not only be changed but changes all the time without us being aware of this. Bruce Lipton, an American development biologist, knows that our mood swings affect our DNA and that our mind can consciously manipulate our body.

Not everyone will believe in this, even if it a fact that has been shown to be true. Studies show how DNA changes and therefore changes the body and how people cure themselves. This means that also erectile dysfunction has a cure that lies within your control.

In case your father had to deal with erectile dysfunction and they taught you that you might get it too, there's a great possibility that you will create it through this believe. On the other hand, you know now that you are also able to make it go away.

If you believe you can, you can and vice versa. The story has shown it to us: Many years ago the world record in sprinting was broken after almost a hundred years, and then people started believing that it was possible, whereas before that they didn't. People started braking the world record almost monthly.

When you read in the newspapers, hear on TV and maybe from your family and friends that erectile dysfunction is getting more in the world, you might get worried and have a fear in your mind that eventually will actually evoke the erectile dysfunction.

 Your subconscious mind is the one that causes the erectile dysfunction to rise, you don't do it on purpose, let's say. However, being bombarded with these negative news about young male having erectile dysfunction or knowing that maybe it lies in your family, is information that is taken in by your subconscious that might evoke an erectly dysfunction in the end.

 It takes time to manifest an erectile dysfunction and it might also take some time to erase it again, and for the time being you might want to consider using the usual help which are potency enhancers like Priligy or Viagra. It can be a support until you manage to use the power of your mind.

How to deal with erectile dysfunction in a relationship

The help that exists nowadays may tempt to see erectile dysfunction as a problem of the man. That would be a fatal miscalculation of the situation! Erectile dysfunction affects both partners and is therefore always a partnership problem that can only be solved jointly.

For many men it’s part of manhood, that they solve their problems on their own. The conversation with the partner does not exist as a way to solve the problem. Without discussion, both partners have to rely on imagination and speculation. Especially in the case of erectile dysfunction men generally underestimate by far the relevance of this to the partner.

By Michael Lukas Moeller is the saying: "What is taboo, no one can create." Actually it is even worse: What is taboo develops its own dynamics, and you’re helpless against it. Suppressed anger and frustration accumulate, until eventually a trivial problem ignites to a usually inappropriate, violent conflict, but because of the unspoken issues it cannot work as a "purifying rain". The solution lies in an open discussion of the partners in an honest exchange of desires, needs and boundaries. 

Each person has his or her own developing sexuality. The only way to find out is through an honest exchange: What is missing? What is good for me? How can we make our situation work so that we're both happy? This communication is essential for a relationship without any sexual issues, for example when it’s about finding one acceptable solution for both when dealing with different needs in terms of frequency and types of sexual intercourse. 

When sexual issues play a role in a relationship, the conversation becomes even more important because there is much more to clarify and because of the big uncertainty on both sides. When there is a potency failure, for example, this means that the partner is already involved in the selection of auxiliary facilities. 

If the man would choose an auxiliary possibility that she rejects internally, for example because of fear that the drugs might sicken her partner or because she feels the procedure is repulsive, then it can surely be no experience to rejoice in..

Especially with unclear causes of an erectile dysfunction, it is also important not to hastily cure the symptoms. Everything has a reason and it is wise to listen to the language of the body. The joint reflection on the importance of erectile dysfunction may provide important insights into upcoming changes in life and in the partnership.

In many respects, the partners have difficulties to talk about their sexuality with each other. A situation in which one can talk freely about certain topics is not going to happen overnight. 

People usually have a long history and therefore it cannot be changed too easily. In order to initiate a change, the partners could decide, for example, to read a book together about partnership and exchanging personal information. The books by John Gray and Michael Lukas Moeller appear to us best suited. Especially we would like to recommend:
 John Gray:
Mars, Venus & Eros -
Perhaps you can think of some unconventional ways to get into a conversation. Maybe paint a comic with a message or read a short story.
There are of course a wide range of ways to enliven the communication: Talking with other affected people and exchanging, and participation in seminars, partner, marriage counseling, couples therapy.
 
A potency failure may be the beginning of a deeper partnership.

Erectile dysfunction in young men

When erectile dysfunction affects you unexpected

Why do young people get erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is a wide spread illness that nowadays not only affects older men but even young guys in their twenties and thirties. The reason for that lies in either their genetic because it lies in the family history like cancer for example or because of an unhealthy life style. 

When the erectile dysfunction is due to genetics don’t hesitate treating it because there is help out there. Recent research has shown that our DNA isn’t just there when we get born an we die with it – Bruce Lipton talks in his speeches and conferences about out ability to change our DNA with the power of our mind and thoughts.

This might seem philosophical and supernatural to you and you might not agree with him, but studies proof that we do can change our DNA. It’s more, our DNA changes each time our mood changes, if we want it or not. Therefore also erectile dysfunction can be eliminated when knowing how. 

If you believe that you’re going to suffer from erectile dysfunction in the future because your dad did, it’s very probable that you will get an erectile dysfunction because you will create it with your thoughts. But know that you have also the power to reverse it. 

Things happen when we believe they can happen. Look at the man who broke the world record as a sprinter, when the whole world believed that it was impossible that a human being could ever run that fast. After he had taught the world that it IS possible, the world record in sprinting was broken all the time because people believed then that they could.

The more people get erectile dysfunction, the more young people will think about whether they’re going to suffer from it too in the future, therefore many younger guys have erectile dysfunction now. It can be hard to believe that you create this illness, when it is the worst that could happen to you.

It happens on a subconscious level when erectile dysfunction or other illnesses are created through the mind. You don’t think one day: Oh, I’m going to create erectile dysfunction now. The fear to get it, the thought that your dad or granddad had or has it, hearing in the news that younger people are getting affected, all these things can trigger your subconscious which will then manifest in erectile dysfunction in your body.

It can take a while until you completely eliminate your erectile dysfunction and it is recommendable using potency enhancers now and again to pull yourself out of a depression but know that you can heal yourself only through the power of your thoughts.